Fandom and Fans : Wake up! This is Reality

I have my fandom and I love it. But I learned so many things in it, and I’m gonna share you a bit about it.

Keep real friendship, earn respect, value trust and don’t believe in everything you see or hear.

In JE fandom~

1.     Respect every video and music uploaders~ Give credits, say thank you messages, no bad-mouthing, and follow their rules.

2.    In forums, clubs, groups etc~ Fandom maybe sharing but learn to follow rules. Keep your mouth shut when a particular cluster said so.

3.    To the fans~ learn to limit yourself.

Yheah, I myself have leaked something precious to a person I thought I could trust also but I ended up being betrayed and hurting the primary people involved. That person told to other people the information. I learned my lessons and I’m writing this to tell you something you probably don’t know.

What do I mean by “LIMIT YOURSELF”? To the fans~

There are some things that you can publicly share/reveal just because you personally found out about it. There are private things fans shouldn’t get themselves into. Sometimes, because we think that this is FANDOM, it’s okay to tell everyone what we think can be publicized when in reality, it should have been private. It’s horrible knowing that sometimes we become this type of fans. Trash fans as some may call it. We were so obsessed of being in fandom that we tend to be like someone popular in this world too by being like paparazzi who try to reveal everything about our favorite artists, not minding whether it is private or public.

Fans always blame Johnny-san, the Staffs, paparazzi’s, Hey Say Shoujo, Magazines, Interviewers, or other people… when something bad happens or news, etc. But have you ever tried blaming yourselves? I did. How about you? Yes? No? No. Reason, because you are fans. And you always thought you are one heck good of a fan. Well, I’m gonna tell you the reality. The real thing is sometimes, it is the fans’ fault why Johnny-san would at times disband a JE group or kick out an individual artist.

Minna, please stop posting, blogging or writing about JE stuffs unless it is officially announced to the public by JE itself. You know why? Because sometimes, it’s what we posts that creates chaos and rumors around the fandom world. One day, NYC, Arashi, NEWS, or much more is Hey Say JUMP might end up getting disbanded or lose members because of the privacy leakage fans posts online etc. about what they know or find out about the JE Artists.

            It may be your right to have freedom to do whatever you like to post but there are times that it is not just right. Sometimes we say that we just wanted to reveal the truth and only the truth and share it to our fellow readers or fans. (What? Are we reporters now? From Paparazzi to reporters and what’s next? Private investigators? Tsk tsk.)

Guys, you don’t want the truth. You want a story. Because of the fan’s sometimes bad obsession, you turn your idols’ lives into your own little reality show. You build them up into a big celebrity just so you can tear them down in public. Fans’ take away the freedom, privacy, honesty to their idols. So

When one said no re-uploading, re-posting or keep things that you read/hear as a secret because of confidentiality~ ONEGAI~ please do obey it. If more JE groups would get disbanded because fans get out of hand, congratulations, you’ve created a celebrity topic. But don’t blame other people, instead try to blame your little witty attitude as a fan.

That’s all I wanna say.

 

PS: Please spread with the full content or link this if you want to share my article. Give credits too MOPY.

Credits to Disney, JE, and MOPY (LoLz)...

Fans-Stars Obsession: Kick Ass

One of my past times is surfing the net. Watching movies online and other people’s videos, and reading blogs of my friends, to not my friends, to totally unknown people. Sometimes, I would even end up in a celebrity’s blog site. It’s not that I know everything about everybody. It’s just that I found interesting things everywhere and putting it all together, I always come up with ideas.

Just recently, I was hooked up on following Japanese blogs. Some of them are celebrities. I read in some blogs, people are quarreling. Some blogs are being hacked. The most ridiculous thing I found out was posers are everywhere. Celebrities and ordinary people are being followed, have fans clubs, and unknowingly, there are people who pretends to be them. Ridiculously annoying, isn’t it?

I don’t really get it. Okay, people get famous because there is something about them that is cool. The people who like them are called ‘fans’. They are the followers. But there are different types of fans, good, stupid and the bad fans. But there are also different types of famous people, good, bad, and in between.

Fans are good when they are in front of the idols. The bad side of them comes out when they are not in front of the well-known. They try to follow celebrities everywhere and treat them like some kind of Gods when the fact is that they are just mere mortals whose talent was discovered. Usually fans go gaga over their idols which are very insane.

I just have a question and I hope to get an answer in the near future.

If they wanted privacy, why would they put their pictures publicly in their accounts? They could use their pet’s pictures. Duhh.

They would keep on posting blogs which contains their writings saying “Please fans, this is the real ______, stop fighting or bad-mouthing me. I’m not a fake. I have this and that and… You can ask him and her and… blah blah blah.” Hey peeps, this is the online world where people could connect from all the sides of the world. I can’t blame anyone for this. But I can judge anybody for ruining ones personality because of his/her/their unruly obsession over someone. Trying to copy and pretend to be someone else is as dirty as trying to eat your own feces, do you know that?

If they want to, they could just create fan pages. Or do what Justin Bieber is doing. Haha.

Obsession has two types. The Good one is when fans support them by following their official blogs and saying Good Lucks, have their music in your player, you have posters or pictures of them and your know things about them. I mean things that were officially said from them of course. Not some make up stories and ideas. You support them 100% and you don’t fight with other fans. And you’re happy when they are happy.

The bad obsession is when you become stupid. You scream outrageously because of your fancy mania with the celebrity with no valid reason at all. You throw things at them when they’re on stage. You stalk them everywhere. You try to hack their personal accounts online. You sleep outside their houses. You spread rumors that are not true. And you pretend to be them in some social sites. Isn’t that so ridiculous?

The next thing we knew, fans are already fighting at each other. The bad thing is, when the one you’re actually having fight with is the true one. You just won’t believe him/her/them.

For the side of the famous: Okay, so they knew about things like this. And all they would do is to plead that fans shouldn’t do such things or say that this certain site is theirs, etc etc. (I’m talking about the bad obsession part.) So I saw several blogs that proves it. When they’re spammed with hate comments already saying that the owner of the blog is just a bogus… They would send some sort of plead replies telling the sender that it is in actual fact them. They next thing you’ll see is the owner, telling his/her/their followers that they will transfer to another blog or social site already because they can’t take what the bad fans were doing. This also applies to normal people who have posers.

Is that all you can do? Going to another site because it’s killing you knowing that you have posers or some people are being bad to you because they wouldn’t believe any word you say? If you can’t take what the bad people are doing, what more if it’s already personal? If you can’t take it while you’re still in the early years of stardom of life, what more in the future? Hah! You’ll never survive in this world if you don’t know how to fight for your rights. You’ll never be someone worth of a personality star if you would just kept on running away from ghost who’s not even an inch worthy to be your impersonator.

Being someone unique to the eyes of the people has consequences you have to face. And as the owner of that soul, body and mind, you must know that it is your rights to fight for your own personality from someone who’s trying to steal it. And if you’re brilliant enough, you know they can’t do anything but talk bad about you. As long as you know who and what you are, you don’t have to plead for their mouths to shut up from pissing you.

This is so KICK ASS!

Bullies are Stupid.

It's really funny knowing that some people would try to hunt you down. And be fooled because they do not give themselves the benefit of the doubt. They would just kept on believing. By the time they found the real one, they would tend not to believe them. They would tend to bully or fight against people without trying to find out what is the truth or not.

It is so annoying. We are born good and smart. But people tend to stay the same and become stupid just because they think they are already good enough. If only all of us would try to smarten up and do things even though we are afraid to do so, if we know it is good. We would do it and be proud of ourselves for being smart enough not to hurt anybody.

I will and I will not.

I will give myself the benefit of the doubt and be brave to ask if I want to know the truth.

I will not fight, hurt or bully anyone just because I think I'm smart.

I will strengthen my values which are faith, divine nature, individual worth, knowledge, choice and accountability, good works, integrity and virtue more than I used to be.

I will not do things I can't do especially if it will hurt somebody else.

I will always protect my people and care about them even if they're spoiling me like a child. (which is very weird but cute. haha)

I will not let bad people scare my pride away and not able to fight for my own.

I will help other people be confident enough to save themselves from bullies.

I will not lie just to make people like me.

I will always tell the truth even if it means I could hurt myself or the person concerned.

I will not let people love me for who I am not, it is better if they would dislike me for who I am not than to love me for who I am not.

I will love people without discrimination like I always do.

I will not be a burden to other people to the extent that I can not live without them.

I will be proud to accept my mistakes and make it right what is wrong.

What hurts...

Sometimes, when people decide to leave you, you have to let them no matter how much you don't want them to. There are some things that are far beyond our control. Even if you have the strength to fight for them, you have to accept the cold harsh truth - the people that you CAN'T live without, CAN live without you.

Respect

Everyone has its limits. Don't expect a person to have a full respect on you as time passes by. If you don't know how to respect that person too, the value of his/her respect for you will not always remain the same.

Don't act as if you know me already, there are things that you have to earn in order to make me respect you deep from my heart. or else, you're just the same as the others. The sad people.

Kill for a cause - A balance of Nature

Life of humans is not as simple as we think it is. Humans need to undergo into this some sort of cycle. A cycle where they must learn how to use and renew a life that a nature have in order to live. These lives in the form of floras and faunas. You can't just kill a beast without the reason of need.

The Hurt...

Not because you look okay means you're really okay. Sometimes, we, people, have to realize that feeling guilty isn't something as feeling hurt. I want people to love me, but it's not going to hurt me if they don't. But please play fair. Don't hit people. Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody. And forgive those who truly mean what they said. Coz you're sure it took all their mighty forces and pride just to accept that they're wrong. And that cycle is what makes us REAL HUMAN.

>>Mopy's message: So to those whom I have hurt... I felt ashamed for what I had done. I don't have any excuses. I did what I did. I take full responsibility for myself and my actions. I wouldn't pawn this off on anybody. I'm sorry it happened.

My life...

I was asked by my teacher... What type of life has God given you?


God has given me a life full of trials but despite of these, He also showers me with blessings. A life that would make me experience all the feelings and emotions that there has in the world He sent so many problems I have to face and endure to test my values which are Faith, Divine Nature, Individual Worth, Knowledge, Choice and Accountability, Good Works, Integrity and Virtue, but also given me people and commandments that would help me achieve high aims and reach my goal. The goal that all LDS plans to aim and that is to fulfill that plan of salvation and to be back to Heavenly Father. I just have to believe, not lose my faith, and endure to the end.


How 'bout you? If you were asked to put it into words... What kind of life do you think God has given you?

Philippine Election -What's in it for me?

I'm just wondering... since it's election time again, many are 'nagkukumahog' to run this time. And seeing what happened to the Philippines for the past few years, I wonder what could these bunch of runners can do for the country if ever they win the votes of many. Seeing the Philippines right now, it seems like there were really no good things that happened to make it a better living place. So many shortages, wars, inflation and unattended pending help from those who were struck by the calamities we have encountered.

Just recently, in my Economics class, we had reporting by groups. My group tackled about the Finance thingy of the Philippines and the next group discussed about the Trading thingy. The Galleon era and the era now. We have learned that the current 'utang' (debt) of the Philippines in the World Bank is about Php 300 billion now or something close to that. (not really sure)

The Philippines was born to be one of the most blessed country in the World. So gifted.
But how come we belong to the 3rd world countries?
How come we can't even pay our debts?
How come Filipinos were born very gifted but people chose to be so dumb instead?
We're an agricultural country but how come we can't even supply our own with the basics needs?
How come we have so many laws but we're so poor in following it?
How come we have so many buildings and techs like 'nakikipagsabayan tayo kahit papaano' but then, so many children can't go to school?
How come they were fixing the roads and the industrial buildings but can't fix the needies?
How come there are people who dies of being hit by cars just under the overpass?
How come there are so many talented Filipinos but they kept on focusing the fame to those who brings so much money for themselves and not for the country?
How come most of the successful businessmen are foreign and not from our own race? and we tend to make 'samba' and use these foreign items when ours are more beautiful naman?
How come 'ung sariling atin, mas mahal'?
How come we have so many 'libreng school para sa mahirap "daw"', and yet so many Filipinos can't attend to these schools?
How come there are so many 'how come's? Can't we make a difference?

How can these candidates of 2010 Elections serve the Philippines? Can they make a difference? Is that difference going to be good or bad?

Pinapalaki nila ung mga daan kasi daw para di na masyadong trapik. Totoo ba? nabawasan ba ung trapik? hindi naman. Madami kasing makukuha dun. Wala un sa daan. Nasa gumagamit un.
Bakit sa Japan at States, maliliit ung mga public highways nila pero maayos naman? Diretso pa mostly ung mga daan, hindi paliko likong parang spaghetti. Wala magulong trapik. Kasi maayos ung laws nila. Hinuhuli ung dapat hulihin. Inaayos ung dapat ayusin. Walang kotong. Walang gitgitan. Nasa iisang lane kaya hindi buhol buhol.
Ung bicycle lane nila, para lang talaga sa bicycles at skaters. Sa ibang bansa nga, may Horse lanes pa. Bakit satin hindi pwedeng ganun??? Kasi pati ung bicycle lanes ginagawang car lanes or paradahan. Anong silbi nun?

Gusto kong makasakay ng malayo sa kabayo pag may lakad akong hindi ganun kaimportante. Gusto kong maranasan mag-skates or mag-bike when going somewhere without thinking that I might not be safe cause I might get hit by a car or something.

Gusto kong makakita ng kandidatong nakikipagkamay sa taong grasa. Gaano ba sila maka-tao? Gaano sila mapagkunwari? Gaano nila makakayang humalik sa lupa?

It's not about kung sinong galing sa mahirap... it's not about kung sinong they thought is para sa mahirap... It's about kung sinong tatayong magpapakahirap.

It's not about kung sinong mag-aahon satin sa kahirapan... It's not about kung sinong magbibigay satin ng tulong para yumaman... It's about kung sinong maglalakas loob to make the lives of each and every Filipinos pantay pantay. Walang mahirap, walang mayaman. Nagtutulungan, nagmamahalan, nagbibigayan.

Gusto kong makakita ng kandidatong namamalengke sa wet market para magpakain ng mga malnourish, hindi nangangampanya sa dry market with his/her bodyguards with matching banda's.

Gusto kong makakita ng tunay na pagbabago. Gaya ng pangarap ng mga taong tunay na nakakakita sa reyalidad na nangyayari sa bansa.

Pilipino Ka Ba?

Kahit anu ka pa...

Diyos ng Kaguwapuhan...

Diyosa ng Kagandahan...

Mayaman...

Mahirap...

Ang tunay na Pilipino,

anumang estado,

marunong pa ring humalik sa lupa!

I am not plastic!

Akala mo lng hindi ako nakikinig... pero not looking at you when you're talking doesn't mean that Mopy-chan is not listening at all... if you do not know how I handle things, then please, don't judge me just according to someone else's point of view, my actions and my physical appearance... at hindi porket iba ang personality ko sa ibang grupo at iba din sa iyo, ibig sabihin na nuon ay plastic akong tao... I may act like a total bitch there, kid here, nerd to others, shy to some and i-don't-care-sa -paligid ko when i am with you.. pero hindi ibig sabihin non wala talaga akong pakialam sau...=(

Cheating

'...that rather than looking to change how students behave, educators should instead look into themselves and find out if they are the ones contributing to the problem.
“...cheating can be curbed, because I honestly think that students cheat if they feel that it’s impossible. And impossibility is a result of demanding too much output when you haven’t even put much in to begin with. If you’re a good educator, students won’t feel the need to cheat.”' (Trick or cheat By RONALD S. LIM: November 12, 2009)

I agree with her.. If only teachers could make the subject fun even if the lesson itself is boring... and if they can teach us in a not stiff way and brightly... then students wouldn't even dare cheating.

Teacher's, ARIGATO!!!

Usually, we would say that teachers suck, not good, and annoying. Usually, we would think that teachers only think of themselves, that they don’t care about their students, and they just teach us craps. Wholeheartedly, just this week, I realized that not everything we think about others is right.
Who and what really are these TEACHERS anyway? According to the dictionary, is it someone who shares, teach, or impart knowledge or skill to somebody else. Therefore, teachers are not only those who have taken up the course Education. All of us can be a teacher. No age limits, no strict education standards, no restrictions, as long as you know what to teach, you can be a teacher.
There may really be some scrap teacher, but not all of them. Also, there are options and exemptions on how we classify people. You see, each of us has different point of views, standards and personalities. Other may think that Mr. Einstein is an insane one, but others would think otherwise. He’s a genius. Honestly, my dear people, whether a teacher is good or not depends on you, on us. Students can’t choose their teachers, though they can choose their schools.
Imagine if someone is teaching us something and we don’t get it, we would say the teacher is not good. But other did get it, so, we would say, “Matalino kasi sila.” Then we would start looking for another teacher. A teacher who could teach us great things and we would think that this teacher is better or rather, perfect. I realize how pathetic those people who has this way of thinking. Guilty as charged. Perfection is just a matter of individuality, or a matter of changing how you view things. Whether the learning thing is boring or fun doesn’t always depend on teachers. It also depends on the students. Cause true knowledge will only be acquired by those who really want to learn.
Different kinds of teachers we meet everyday. Teacher Policeman teaches us that jaywalking is bad. Teacher Nurse and Teacher Doctor teach us how to take care of our health. Teacher Mother and Father guide us in our lives. Teacher Fireman teaches us never to play fire. And of course, let’s include Teacher Classmates and Teacher Friends whom we could always ask for help when we have something that we can’t understand in class or somewhere else. We like some, we hate some. Still no matter what kind of teacher you meet in the future, don’t forget what you’ve always learned. They’re the one who taught us how to have pride and confidence, to be humble, disciplined and independent, and they’re the one who had taught us how to stand up when we fall and shakes us up when we’re on our lame selves.
So, with all these things that our teacher had done, have we ever thank them for it? Have we ever tried appreciating them? Have we ever tried apologizing to all the heartaches and the pains we’ve given to them? Have we ever thought that, simple gesture of smile and giving gratitude to them could make them feel like the luckiest teachers in the world? Oh yes, that’s true. Even the grouchiest person in the world could turn into a cool, happy and wonderful person if you know someone appreciates your existence. Most people say I’m just a kid. By the looks, yes, but now that I already realized how pathetic I have been, that only means I am not a kid anymore. I’m now standing at the entrance of adulthood. Guys, now is the time that we wake up from being stubborn, out of control staminas. Now is the time that we learn to say thank you to our teachers.

(I first delivered this as my speech in my english 3 class. I ended it with this.

For the ending, I’d like to take this opportunity to give gratitude to those who became my teachers in my earlier college years. To the villa girls who kept on checking my attendance during PE. Thanks. To my current group, The Gamers, consists of Paps, Brotherhood (Willmar), Momo-chan (Raiza), Mamu Joyce, Nefirtiri (Jarie), Ilatriva (Katrina), Kuya Beybi Davie and Master (Rom). Thanks for the friendship. Kuya Gab, thanks for coaching me at Computer Organization class. To everyone, thanks for being my classmates. And of course, Miss Tibayan, Arigatou-Gozaimashita!

My teacher really liked it. I was so overwhelmed with joy knowing that I have touched the hearts of my audience. Maybe not all my classmates but at least, my teacher did.)

I am grateful to know that i have this gift to do such great touching pen works. This pen work is for all the teachers in the world.

So to all the teachers i have met and I will meet in the future, ARIGATOU-GOZAIMASHITA!!!

Someone...

It's not always that you will meet someone who will value your existence more than the way you expected and the way you value him/her. And it's not also everyday that you will have that person to talk to and see. So whatever the circumstances are, you always have to look forward to seeing and talking to that person, and never let go of that special feelings you have, for you will never know... That might be the last time that you will have the chance to have all his/her time and attention just for you. And there will be no more next time.

CINDYRELLA – THE NEW VERSION

CINDYRELLA – THE NEW VERSION

A long long time ago, in a far far far away subdivision with a kingdom outside our galaxy, a girl named Cindyrella was locked up in a slimy cellar where rats and cockroaches began to nibble her feet.

Cindyrella cried, “Help! Let me out!”

Then there came out a magic Dwelf and said, “My dear, are you alright?”

Cindyrella replied, “All right? Can’t you see I feel as rotten as can be!?!? Get me to the ball held at the kingdom! My stepsisters have gone and I am jealous! I want a dress, a coach, earrings, diamond brooch, silver slippers and a nylon panty hose! Not tomorrow, not yesterday, but NOW!”

Therefore, the magic Dwelf gave her colorful dagger-wand a mighty flick and in no time at all, Cindyrella was at the ball! Dancing with the handsome Prince who have fallen in love at first sight with her. All was going on so well until the clock struck for midnight.

“Heck! I’ve got to run to run to save my neck!” Cindyrella shouted.

She run away as fast as she could but the Prince grabbed her dress to hold her back. The dress was ripped from head to toe and she ran out with her underwear and lost one slipper on the grand stairs.

“The girl whom this slipper fits shall be my bride!” said the Prince. The next morning, the Prince went on looking for the owner of the slipper. The shoe was long, very wide and smelled a wee bit icky. There came to Cindyrella’s house, Cindyrella’s ugly stepsisters tried the slipper. The eldest, Andalucia, said it was hers but the Prince denied and decided to go home.

Andalucia stopped him and said, “You promised to marry me so you stand on it!”

The Prince got angry. He pulled his sword out and in one swoosh sway, Andalucia’s head went down to her feet. The second stepsister, Grizziella, feeling delighted, tried to get the slipper to try it on but the Prince would not give it to her.

“Hey! Marry! I am the true owner of that filthy slipper, you know. So marry me!” Grizziella said.

The Price smiled at her and another swoosh sway of his sword, Grazziella’s head rolled down to her feet and headed to the kitchen.

“She’s prettier without her head.” The Prince said.

At the kitchen, Cindyrella was busy cooking ger food when she saw Graziella’s head.

“Oh! My dear sister’s head was chopped! Hmmmm, on the other hand, I think this will make my food more delicious.” So she picked up the head and put it on the food she’s cooking. Tasted it and said, “Hmmmm.. Delicioso!”

She went out in the kitchen and saw the Prince.

“What’s all the racket?” asked the puzzled Cindyrella.

“Mind your own business. Want me to chop your head too?” the Prince answered.

“Oh my! My Prince has the hobby of chopping heads! Magic Dwelf, magic Dwelf, please hear my plead. Please let me marry a honey jam maker instead of a Prince. Let me marry a good man instead of one chopping heads. Please let me have someone who would love me for who I am, than having someone who is handsome but does not know how to value life. Please turn me back into my old good-hearted self.” cried Cindyrella.

The Dwelf came out of sight again upon hearing Cindyrella’s call. She waved her dagger-wand and Cindyrella can be seen neither in a brick house nor in a palace. She’s living in a wooden house eating a yummy bread with sweet honey instead of a soup with a human head. And of course, instead of a Prince, she was married to a good, honest honey jam maker.

And they lived happily ever after…

Lesson learned:

· Be contented of what you have. Don’t dream for something unbelievable and impossible. Just try if you can change your fate.

· Wait for what is destined to you. Don’t be in a rush. But also remember that you make your own fate.

· Greed will bury even the lucky eventually.

· You can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

· Either you control your attitude or it controls you.

· Background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

· It’s not what you have in your life, but whom you have in your life that counts.

· The most important things in life aren't things.

· No matter where life takes you, don't forget where you came from.

Boy-Girl facts (3)...

Guys said...

"We don't care if you talk to other guys.

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

We don't care if a guy calls/OR TEXTS. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. beside us.

When we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence

Yeah, you can quote me.

Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take advantage of the mood we're in.

Let us pay for you! Dont "feel bad". We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say "thank you.

Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.

You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not for who you are not. Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's.
or my shirt and boxers, not all dolled up.

Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.

Don't talk about how hott Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.

Whatever happened to the word handsome??? beautiful???

I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of. On the other hand I'm not saying i wouldn't like it ether (;.. "







Now we know girls...
Still... Don't forget.. If you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change. Ditch his sorry ass, disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect

Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say "i love you" ..and ACTUALLY MEAN IT.

ok?=) Ja!

Boy-Girl facts (2)...

When a guy calls you,
he wants to be with you...

When a guy is quiet,
He's listening to you...

When a guy is not arguing,
He realizes he's wrong...

When a guy says, "I'm fine",
after a few minutes, he means it...

When a guy stares at you,
he wishes you would care about him and wonders if you do too..

When you're laying your head on a guy's chest,
he has the world..

When a guy calls/texts/comments/messages you everyday,
he is in love...

When a (good) guy tells you he loves you,
he mean it...

When a guy says he can't live without you,
he's with you till you're done...

When a guy says, "I miss you,"
he misses you more than you could have ever missed him or anything else...






When a girl is mean to you after a break-up,
she wants you back but she is too scared she'll get hurt and knows you're gone forever!

When you catch a girl glancing at you,
she wants you to look back and smile...

When a girl bumps into your arm while walking with you, she wants you to hold her hand...

When she wants a hug,
she will just stand there...

When u break a girls heart,
she still feels it when you run into each other 3 years later...

When a girl is quiet,
millions of things are running in her mind...

When a girl is not arguing,
she is thinking deeply...

When a girl looks at you with eyes full of questions,
she is wondering how long you will be around...

When a girl answers, "I'm fine,",
after a few seconds, she is not fine at all...

When a girl stares at you,
she is wondering why you are playing games...

When a girl lays her head on your chest,
she is wishing for you to be hers forever...

When a girl says she can't live without you,
she has made up her mind that you are her future...

When a girl says, "I miss you,"
no one in this world can miss you more than that...




(Readers... Agree or disagree? hahaha)

Boy-Girl facts (1)...

To every guy that said, "Sex can wait"
To every guy that said, "You're beautiful."
To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town to see her.
To every guy that gives her flowers and a card when she is sick or down.
To every guy who has given her flowers just because thats how he rolls.
To every guy that said he would die for her.
To every guy that really would.
To every guy that did what she wanted to do.
To every guy that cried in front of her. ....
To every guy that she cried in front of...
To every guy that holds hands with her.
To every guy that kisses her with meaning.
To every guy that hugs her when she's sad.
To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.
To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.
To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.
To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes.....
To every guy that would give his seat up...
To every guy that just wants to cuddle.
To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what.
To every guy who told his secrets to her.
To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.
To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.
To every guy that believed in her dreams.
To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.
To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams.
To every guy that walked her to her car and opened the door.
To every guy that gave his heart.
To every guy who prays that she is happy even if you are not with her.


Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore...
And because of this, there are not many left out there...


So.. to all the girls that would have the chance to read this... please appreciate every single things about guys... start appreciating now... and to all the guys... please prove to us that you guys are like this...

A poem

(i got this somewhere...)

FRIEND

friend means no asking...
friend means no reasoning...
friend means just believing
and
friend is that who will never believe in the last three letters of
FRIEND...

What personality???

I took a personality test and i don't know what should be my reaction about it... well, sabi dun..

You don't judge others' faults but rather have compassion on them and what they are going through. Your first instinct when you see someone in need is to comfort them and show them how much you care. You are gracious, and love flows out of you naturally. Even in situations where most people would back away, you are right there for people with your arms wide open. You feel empathy for those who suffer, and this might be because of your kind nature or maybe even because you can relate; whatever the reason, you help heal wounds and are a shoulder to cry on. You are very helpful to those around you-- be it your friends, your family, or even a neighbor in need. You have a deep sense of warmth and nurturing for those you care about. You are well-rounded and tough because you have to be. You aren't a "diva" but rather a humble person with admirable character. You are good at striking up a conversation, and you listen attentively. People find you cute and easy to connect with. Your smile has a hint of flirtation in it which makes you look fun and attractive. When you flash a smile, people know that it signals that start of a potentially great conversation. You are sweet with a sour side to you. You are fun and energetic. You love being outdoors and spending time with quality friends and family. You've got 95% popularity at the scale of 100. You are a notorious sexy babe who is 75% boyish and 25% girlish. You are strong and determined and have what it takes to get through life's storms. You are a great leader and strong-willed person, and take challenges as a way to better yourself. By being able to turn a little into a lot, you know how to make life enjoyable even if it's just through the little things. You are always on the move – probing, testing, tasting and exploring the most interesting things life has to offer. You are not afraid to take chances and are attracted to risk and danger. You are determined, active and love danger. You are restless and life is never dull around you. You are truly independent a real adventurer. You never get scared of strangers. Even though you may look creepy you always fascinate people. You think things through. You don't run off into a situation with your emotions ruling you. Though as a leader you are powerful and protective... you try hard not to be all work and no play! Love and affection are important to you, you can be warm and giving and then cool and detached. You are a clairvoyant. You have huge aspirations in life and want the most that life has to offer. You are the best kind of dreamer because you know how to dream big! You believe that everyone should be equal. You love arts. You are a person with some talent and don't really depend on other people, you know the idea of life pretty clearly, but still you are trying to be happy and notice only the best points in life, and learning life is not really hard for you. You are loud and proud of it. You don't give a damn if the people on the street give you strange looks for laughing out loud or having a spring in your step. If life gives you lemons, you shrug and make sweet lemonade for everyone. Your friends don't always get your no boundaries sense of humor and outlook on life, but they understand you and love you for it. You are the type of girl that a guy MIGHT like. You like to keep focused on other things though but guys like it when you try and catch their eye. Even though you are shy when it comes to flirting, you love talking on the phone with your friends talking about that incredibly cute guy you saw. You are a respectful person but shy away from sexual activity and relationships. You have no desire to have a companion at the moment and are happy alone. When asked out on a date you always respond with no. Your Independence is most important right now even if it is alone. You enjoy having privacy and do not want anyone you have to answer to. You completely block out feelings that might lead to companionship. Still, you are secretly looking for Mr. Right.

So that's the result of the test i took. I don't know if I'm going to believe it or laugh at it. hahaha. Silly me. shing shing!!